[flashman]

"It’s your entire job to say no to stuff like this [asking for more time]."

No, as a manager it's your entire job to make sure stuff like this doesn't happen. How did you let the project lead get into this situation? How irresponsible was it to basically gamble - not just with money, but with other people's time and careers - that the project would be on schedule? "Oh, but that's the way games get made." Right, so now you're just normalizing deviance.