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It's a matter of debunking and dismissing, publicly, the misinformation that obscures this fact.

I'd be interested in analyses of the sources and purposes of this misinformation.

(As a man,) the first time I met a women who was very direct and frank about her experience of attraction and motivation, it was eye opening. Not entirely easy to take, but very elucidating.

So much of the "common", "public" information in (U.S.) society about attraction and mating is just plain bunk. Yet it persists.