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by Red_Tarsius 3711 days ago
Read and practice No More Mr. Nice Guy. That book was a true eye opener. Get into a weight lifting program (with a coach, NOT by yourself), it feels great and it gives you a long term goal outside the dev bubble.

> When I'm in a relationship I feel insecure that she really likes me.

You shouldn't feel that way if she already chose you.