[manibatra]

In my opinion its more about being comfortable in your own skin.

It is ok to have insecurities. Everyone does. I am sure there are a tonne of women out there that would love you for who you are.

"Especially with other Men" sounds like you are trying to compete too much with other guys at least in your head. So stop trying to do things just so that you can "pound your chest".

For me reading books boosts my "manly power and confidence" and my girlfriend loves me for it. I have a mighty phobia of bugs so she is in charge of taking care of that. I guess she is the "man" of the house.

Point being don't beat yourself too much over it just because one girl didn't love you and told you that. It is OK and very very common.

[manwannabe]

Thanks for sharing