[wikvaya]

You cannot acquire what you are looking for; you can only cultivate it and you need to interact with other people for that to happen. Unconditional love for yourself and the world around you is a quality that transcends the masculine or feminine.

There is no shame in avoiding conflict. Learn to love yourself consider yourself an accomplishment. Express yourself and share in this experience with the rest of your fellow travellers.

Ride the waves my friend and make your peace with the unknown.

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