Yeah, I get that. I normally use they/them/their. But then I'm stuck in plural. That does generally flow better, but sometimes... Anyway, I used to like s/he, but there's nothing elegant for him/her and his/hers.
Edit: Oops, this was in the wrong subthread, so now I have maybe a duplicate. Damn.
Edit: Oops, this was in the wrong subthread, so now I have maybe a duplicate. Damn.