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by nekomancer 3711 days ago
As much as I dislike facebook, I've moved around a lot throughout my life, as have a lot of my friends, both from high school and university. So realistically, I just don't see any realistic alternative single platform which allows me to keep in touch with all these people.

If such a platform did exist, and I knew about it, I would switch immediately. Their entire business model revolves around getting users addicted, and their history of abusing user's data means I will never be able to even trust the platform.

That being said, I limit my facebook usage to messanger and wishing people happy birthday, so I guess it could be worse.
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josu 3711 days ago
>If such a platform did exist, and I knew about it, I would switch immediately.

>That being said, I limit my facebook usage to messanger and wishing people happy birthday, so I guess it could be worse.

You don't need a platform, you need a messaging tool and, if you don't mind the lack of encryption, you could just use email.

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nekomancer 3711 days ago
True, but I also need people I want to talk to to be on the messaging tool, which is the real issue here.

As for email, to me it just doesn't serve the same purpose that IM does. It's analogous to sending letters back and forth as opposed to having a face-to-face conversation -- the increased time lag between replies encouraged by the medium has a huge influence on the nature of conversations that occur through it.

I still use email, for example when I want to send something more in-depth to someone and I don't expect a quick reply. But it's not the right tool if I want a real-time, informal conversation with someone, which is most of my conversations.

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jankedout 3711 days ago
I use Google Messenger. Everyone has a cell phone number. No need to enroll. I can share pictures, audio, text, video. Text messaging is the only thing you need.

I have a group chat with 2/3 other friends I've know for 20+ years. Then I usually text others individually.

Facebook is an awful medium to conduct intimate conversations over. After two failed attempts to ditch it in the past, I've been off Facebook for a year. I can attest that you won't miss it. Just use SMS.

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