[CyberFonic]

Asking "is my ego too big?" is like a woman asking "is my ass too big in these jeans?" In both cases "Yes" might be the unwelcome truthful answer.

It is one thing to be caught up in the hype of a new product and how you feel about it after having used it for several years and shipped several systems using it. There is a certain buzz out learning and you obvious get it.

You actually answer your question. You come across as very inexperienced. You will learn a heck of a lot more if you listen and learn from those who are more experienced than yourself.

You will be a lot more credible if you make suggestions on the basis of verifiable results from your own sweat. When you have proof, be the advocate for the technology you prefer.

Most people do have a life outside of work and for most it doesn't involve yet more programming. You might consider cultivating some non-programming interests so that you can hold down a cocktail party conversation.