[jsprogrammer]

You aren't reading me right. The problem is not the way in which the word was used, but the fact that the word was used at all. The Code of Conduct forbids it.

Further, the problem is not that Bob "d[id]n't mean to be a dick about it"; it is that despite Bob's well-meaning intention to not be a dick, he immediately reversed course with his next word, "but". So, Bob informs Azer that he doesn't mean to be a dick, then double slaps him with full-on dick-mode.

Like I said, a top troll.