[mhurron]

Yes languages are fluid but words also have various meanings. If we have to prevent ourselves from using some word because others may find it offensive, that is self-censoring.

OP tried to get around that by trying to say that when you could be heard by 'them' you shouldn't use those words, but this is the public internet. You are always communicating in the presence of those that will be offended.

[pconner]

This isn't a matter of anyone being "offended," though. No one finds the word "hacker" offensive, they just might have a completely different definition of it depending on what their experiences are. You might as well use a word that's unambiguous.

Likewise, editing a paper to remove grammatical errors is also not "self-censorship." It's improving the clarity of your message.

[Kalium]

What word or words do you suggest that are fully, completely, 100% unambiguous identifiers in this instance?