[SFjulie1]

I have been partly and admin of a urban terror server for years with my team.

This game has always been a troll magnet of milfan boys with too much testosterone. I was one of them, except I had a girl's name.

By kick/banning appropriately with clear reasons we (as a team), we made even women and teens feel welcome (shit happens). I kicked/banned consistently people for personal reasons (I don't like discriminating people). I also kicked/banned other people because they were not enjoyable. So were the others doing. We never asked permission to have a server we would enjoy ourselves playing, we were paying for it. And it was bringing people. And it was fun for everybody, even women and kids.

CoC is just an excuse for failure and lacking balls and that thinking just being "the owner of a digital place" makes you a leader.

Money, title, even skills don't make you a leader. Just succeeding in leading.