[dopesavant]

I dont know how I feel about this one. I feel she should be the one helping/supporting you through your down period and not leaving you when stuff is messed up

[mrmincent]

Relationships are a two way deal. It sounds like it has been going for a while, at least several months. She has every right to put herself first if she's been in an unhappy situation for a long time.

I went through a down period a few years back, lost my gf of 5 years to it. Her leaving removed my saftey crutch and forced me to get my own shit together. Sounds like it's what the OP might need too.

[r2dnb]

Man, they didn't have sex for months. The problem comes from the OP, he needs to build his emotional maturity.

[bluebluetimes]

it was due to stress and yelling and tiring her emotionally as well

[cheez]

That's unreasonable. They haven't had sex in months. Anyway, OP should chalk this up as a learning experience and move on. Develop a more balanced lifestyle.