[javajosh]

Or the kids will say, "I'm sorry, but I'm moving where the jobs are, and I'm going to have a life of my own. I'll come visit you once a year, but I'm not giving up my life for yours."

The good parents will say, "Good! Don't sacrifice your chance for happiness for me. I'll make it through."

[icebraining]

And where are the jobs?

[khuey]

The coastal urban areas and Texas, not the rural south or midwest or rust belt cities.