[Bahamut]

Employees sometimes take big risks too - I have (naively) given up over $100k/year opportunities on top of salary working at startups, including 60-80 hour work weeks for a year in the trenches coding, and have had nothing to show for it, also being offered a pittance of 0.225% of stock (or similar at other startups). In my case, I probably have given up $200k-250k/year in opportunities in the past 1 1/2 years working at startups, although the past half year was by choice by turning down some high offers for a role that more aligned with my current lifestyle.

Now I know better as a software engineer to avoid immature companies like the plague unless they're willing to pay very close to market value. That stock is worth zilch with the way the VC investment game is typically played currently, and founders are fully willing to abuse the naive assumption by those in the trenches that employees will come to riches by working hard and overcoming bad executive/management decisions to save the day.

Founders need to be more honest about employee compensation and more willing to compensate more in line with the market if they want true talent. A $160k-180k offer (or typically less at many cheap startups - a YC company tried to go low with a $120k offer in SF within the past year) with uncertain value of stock doesn't really compare favorably to $250k base + performance bonuses + stock options at a Google or Facebook (or $375k cash/immediately vested stock from Netflix, or in one case I turned down, $170k base + various bonuses for typically $350k-400k compensation). The terms are very unfavorable to employees currently, especially the highly skilled ones, who are also more likely to be savvy.

[douche]

These numbers that are being thrown around are mind-boggling. I still haven't shifted my thinking out of blue-collar, northern Appalachia mode, where $20/hour for back-breaking skilled labor is considered a really good career.

Cost of living must be completely astronomical, or people have really expensive tastes. That kind of salary would be enough, after taxes, for me to work five years, buy a home, cash on the barrelhead, invest the rest, and retire to live off the dividends the rest of my life.

[Bahamut]

I seriously thought about taking one of the big $ offers and doing just that. I had left a startup within the past few weeks then, and was seriously burnt out of 60-80 hour weeks, heavy dose of blame abuse, & product cycles where a sales person could never say no to a customer request.

I ended up taking an offer less than half as much as the top end, but mostly for non-monetary reasons. I came to the conclusion that money wasn't vitally important to me beyond a healthy amount to live comfortably & pay off my debts, and I wanted the flexibility to leave work early, not live in constant pressure to have stories done yesterday, and in general live a more normal life with actual vacation I could take without guilt. It also gave me more freedom to explore software development at my own desire, as there is always more to learn and improve on.

I may start a company in the future, or enter the grind again, but for now I'm happier spending time with friends and enjoying the fruits of my labor. I'm a bit wary of immature startups now though, since many of them are their own brand of mental torture due to large oversights in managing people capital.

[phamilton]

To support a family of 5, you're looking at $4000/month in housing (PITI on 750k townhouse, 3Bed 2.5Bath, 1500 sqft, 40 minutes from the city). For that to make sense, your take home should ideally over $150k, and that's a bare minimum.

[douche]

That's completely insane. Starting out, I didn't gross $4000 a month.

I could live like a king on $150k per year. I don't know what I would spend that kind of money on.

[malyk]

5x$5 for a breakfast coffee/bagel 5x$10-$15 for lunch 5x$3 for an afternoon coffee 3x$30 for dinners/drinks out per week ---- 4x$200 per week in food out 4x$100 per week for food for the home ---- $1200 per month for food.

5x$4-$15 for commuting during the week 2x$15 per weekend for transportation on the weekend ---- $200 for communting per month

$3000 rent per month $150 cell phone bill per month $150 cable/internet bill per month $50 electric/gas bill per month ---- $3350+ per month in housing/utilities

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$4750 per month in living expenses...not including entertainment, car/insurance, and a host of other things. If you're young you probably split the housing costs, so it comes down a little, but you're probably spending at least $3k a month just to live and get to work around SF.

[mailshanx]

400k a year comp is impressive indeed. Besides Google / FB / Microsoft, i only know of HFT funds possibly offering that kind of pay to Software Engineers. Care to share what other places can pay this much, and what is the nature of engineering involved?