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by carsongross
3844 days ago
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IMO, this is more a case of social media bringing deeper problems to the surface than social media being the actual cause. Absolutely not. Facebook is engineered to be addictive, and happiness is based to a very large extent on perceived relative position in a social hierarchy. Facebook is more like a horribly insidious version of advertising than food or alcohol. |
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People largely only post things that are happy, such as birth of a newborn baby, smiling kids, winning awards, having fun on vacation, while cropping out the sad or dull moments.
Those posts garner a lot of likes. And then those rise up in importance on feeds.
It's not uncommon to feel a bit envious of seeing these. So then we eventually we post something of comparable significance. Perhaps a new house. Or an achievement of our own like releasing a first version of something. Or a vacation we've scheduled.
It's creates a weird cycle detached from reality. I'm not depressed but I can't honestly say the experience doesn't affect me.