I think the best "defensive" piece of advice you left out that everyone abuses is never pipe `find` results to `xargs.` One should always do `find ... -print0` to a read-while loop because of filenames with whitespace.
Sorry I think we're saying same thing. On systems with non-GNU find do either `-exec cmd {} +` or `print0` work? My exp was both did NOT work. So either both work or both don't.
But if I understand you correctly on RHEL 4.X `print0` works but `-exec cmd {} +` doesn't.
Which is to say I disagree with op that it's better to rely on `exec cmd {} +` when it seems you're more likely to have `print0 and xargs -0` then that.
`find -print0 | xargs -0 grep some_pattern'