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by andrewshatnyy
3858 days ago
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I might be wrong, but it looks to me you lack confidence.
Every time that happens do anything outside of your comfort zone.
In professional context: Learn a new programming language, get familiar with a new framework, study fundamental CS.
In social context: Go out more, talk to ladies if you're guy, talk to boys if you're girl. I sense in your case you're dealing with passioned/opinionated people and you should take constructive criticism and advance yourself. But don't take shit from them. Have your own opinion on things even if it's not the right one. I love reasonably opinionated conversations because I can learn new from those if I am wrong or incompetent in certain areas. In the end you don't owe them anything and they don't owe you anything (aside from money). Think of your job as a process of you helping the company with your talent and time. Move on if it's not fun for you and you don't learn anything new. |
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What I like about your comment is that it reminds me that I don't need to get bent out of shape about my coworkers problems. If they aren't good at accepting feedback, they're the ones who aren't learning and growing. I can just keep on progressing on my own until I find an opportunity to work somewhere with a more healthy environment.