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If you have vested options, then you can exercise one of them to officially become a shareholder at which point you will have access to a lot of additional information. As only an options holder, there's no legal requirement for them to share that with you.

However, I would be concerned at a fundamental level because, good or bad, they're not being honest with you about the most basic state of the company. You have to ask yourself if that's even the kind of place where you want to be working.