[mikestew]

Even if you were somehow very good at programming but you hatted it, would you choose it as a job? I'd drop it immediately, don't waste your precious time on it.

I've seen plenty of people in the past (less so in the recent past) that did the job, weren't well-suited or it, didn't particularly like it, but they did it anyway. Why? Money. The kind of money that has you ordering stuff on Amazon and never once asking yourself if you have the money for it. You quit balancing your checkbook years ago. That kind of money. Not bathing in $100 bills kind of money, but enough coming in every year that you don't sweat small financial details. You don't do that on the median US income of $50K/year.

You claim if you hated it, you'd "drop it immediately". I don't know you, so maybe you would. But before you commit to that answer, recall that your annual pay might very well get cut in half or more. No more BMW leases for you. Now, maybe that's fine for you (and admittedly, if I could be a professional musician but only making half what I make, I'd take it in a heartbeat; don't need a BMW that badly).

But I knew plenty of folks in 80s (back when programming was the "hot new thing") that got into it because it paid well. They hated the job (probably because they weren't very good at it), but when the kids come and the spouse has become accustomed to a certain lifestyle, it's hard to give it up.