[blumkvist]

Yes, I would very much like to live in a world where people make decisions after some pondering and consideration. That would be swell.

Nobody can (or should) think for you.

A bit offtopic (or not): One of the major differences (if not THE) between western and eastern (Chinese influenced) is about conversation. In western civilization the speaker is obliged to make himself clear and understood by the listener. In Chinese culture it is the opposite - the listener has the obligation to discern the meaning of what is said. Both have pros and cons.