[sliverstorm]

Now imagine that everyone else was "faking it" too. That's always a real mindbender to imagine for me.

Because to some degree we are all faking it, but then when does the front become reality?

[mirimir]

Yes, that's a mindbender.

It's not easy to talk about. People tend to get defensive.

Most smiles that I see seem forced, for example. And even when I'm eavesdropping. So it's not just about me ;)

But it can be learned. Decades later, I still vividly recall the video sessions at the start and end of the est 6-Day course. Most people managed to own their act.