[mikeshreds]

Of course, if one member in a couple has $40 million dollars and the other does not, and the rich one files a lawsuit against the other without even first talking to her, one might consider that the two are not equally culpable parties.

[rayiner]

Didn't mean to imply anything about your particular situation. Just a meta-point. Litigants rarely think they're in the wrong--they view the situation through the lens of their personal narratives of what happened.