[pron]

> but it seems that your version of the feminist agenda puts little or no responsibility on women to actually choose. It's all everyone else's fault.

No, your statement is just the usual anti-feminist complaint. Women have the same responsibilities as men. That doesn't change in the least bit the fact that society limits their choices much more than it does men, and keeps them away from seats of power.

> There is satisfaction and growth in proving ones worth for ones self.

Absolutely. So would you suggest society starts treating men like it treats women and whites like it treats blacks? Let other people have all the exhilaration for a change.

But seriously, this challenge applies to groups of people, too. So women are now going against the grain and trying to prove their collective worth.

> I'm not saying it's fair but then again, fairness is pretty rare and that is a truth that touches everyone.

Very true. Except that that doesn't mean we shouldn't fight for more fairness. Or are people supposed to just accept the places in society someone else has set for them?