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It sounds like you're confused by quantum mechanics and entanglement. We never really know "why" in that sense, that's a question best left to philosophers, and that's what doesn't matter for us --perpetually asking "why" is not productive. In general, asking questions that cannot be falsified/validated experimentally isn't useful in science, hence they don't really matter to us. A physical (or scientific) theory is such that you get more than you put into it. Newton's F=ma and inverse square law didn't just explain the motion of Venus, it explained and extremely wide range of phenomena and gave rise to thermodynamics, heat engines and fluid dynamics among many many other things.
That it predicts new testable phenomena. Maxwell equations uncovered the link between magnetism, electricity and light (things that apparently have nothing to do with each other --but they do, and speed of light is related to permittivity and permeability), and eventually gave rise to special relativity. Quantum mechanics predicted --among many many other things-- anti-particles, superfluidity, superconductors. Mayan priests didn't have this. Physical theories do. "Spooky action at distance" is also an example of this, and it is something falsifiable, and its existence is experimentally confirmed. Nobody is saying we don't understand it or it doesn't matter. It is a just part of reality, and (non-relativistic) quantum mechanics. That model you're referring to is called quantum mechanics, and it has been refined by quantum field theory. You can't prove a scientific theory either way. There are physical laws that work within a certain domain. They just agree with observations. Until we observe something strange that requires a more refined theory, which however reproduces the old theory within the old domain (because it actually worked). For example, when the speed of light is much greater than any speed, you recover Newton's laws from special relativity and general relativity. When the action is large in comparison to the Planck constant, quantum mechanics turns into classical mechanics. When the mass density is small, general relativity becomes Newtonian gravity. And so on. General relativity and quantum field theory will eventually be replaced by something that will (hopefully) explain what's going on inside a black hole, what is dark matter/energy, and so on. |
It does have its share of counter intuitive predictions ( twin paradox), new concept that are difficult to grasp ( relation between acceleration and time clock), yet i've never heard a physisict starting its general relativity course saying things like "you won't understand it, and neither do i" ( which is what feynman did in this video, and he isn't the first professor i saw doing this).