Just accept unsatisfying, impractical truths, and despite that, allow yourself to have an illogical intuitionistic sense of things. That's what I do. :)
Also thank Heraclitus (535 B.C) -- which goes even further: even time changes things, so you can't experience the same ship twice even without interacting with it.
To generalize, physical identity seems to be an important part of ownership, so how does that interact with this concept?