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by thanatropism
3957 days ago
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Personally I wouldn't want to know. We have an actual agreement on this, me and my wife: try not to cheat, but if it happens, do everything to keep the other from knowing. What you don't know can't hurt you -- or at least that's the basis for our arrangement for monogamy between fallible humans. I've heard many arguments for and against it -- the point is that it's OUR arrangement, and YOU have nothing to do with it. |
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Let's say your partner cheated on you and they didn't tell you. Let's also say the person they cheated with lied about having an STD.
In this case, I claim that not knowing can not only damage your marriage but also damage your health.